Over the last month, Muslims around the world have been observing Ramadan. As we approach the final few days, instead of feeling relief, many of us will find our hearts heavy and filled with sadness.
At the start of the month, I still remember my colleague’s bewildered expression when I declared how excited I was for Ramadan to begin: “You’re excited about not eating and drinking for 18 hours?!” she exclaimed. But I was. For those who observe, Ramadan is a magical month. Abstaining from food and drink is one small aspect of a month in which the focus is on self-improvement, charity, and a connection to God.
Like everything else, Ramadan during the pandemic has been a dissimilar experience to previous years. Traditionally a month awash with gatherings of families and friends to break fast and pray together, this year has been quieter and slower, but no less special. I’ve appreciated the extra time to recite Quran, to pray and meditate, and to share the traditions of the month with my children.
Remembering those less fortunate and giving generously are at the very heart of Ramadan. I’m in sheer awe of people, such as BBC reporter, Sabbiyah Pervez, who has undertaken a challenge to run 140k in Ramadan (while fasting!) to raise money for charity. I must admit, the sheer thought of this exhausts me, but Sabbiyah has demonstrated what we are capable of if we put our minds to it.
I invited my colleagues, the Headmaster and Deputy Head, to fast with me for a day this year. They made it through the day and ended it with a home cooked feast which I thoroughly enjoyed cooking for them. They both commented on how the experience increased their respect for the young people in our school who fast every day for the whole month, and the dedication and perseverance they show.
With Eid just around the corner, I’ll genuinely miss the spirit of Ramadan in my house. In the past month, we’ve tried to use our time efficiently, to show each other more empathy, to remember those less fortunate and to be generous. I’ll cling onto these habits for as long as possible, but I know that sadly, when the month is over, the magic will disappear. We’ll say goodbye to Ramadan like we are parting with a dear, close relative and by the time it comes again next year, our hearts will be yearning for it once again.
“For those who observe, Ramadan is a magical month. Abstaining from food and drink is one small aspect of a month in which the focus is on self-improvement, charity, and a connection to God.”
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